Let us tell you about the meaning of the bridal bouquet, the main types, the toss, and our tips for choosing your ideal bridal bouquet.
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Meaning of the bridal bouquet
The tradition of the bridal bouquet dates back to ancient times. In many cultures, brides have carried the bouquet at weddings as a symbol of good luck, abundance, and purity. Some legends say that the bride carried the bouquet as a talisman that protected her from evil spirits, and originally, it was made with thyme and garlic.
Some flowers and colors may also have specific meanings. For example, the red rose symbolizes love and passion; the daisy symbolizes innocence, purity, and true love; the tulip symbolizes true love, etc.
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Bouquet giving
It is tradition that the best man gives he bouquet to the bride before the ceremony. This act usually takes place when the bride is already dressed. The bride receives the best man to receive the bouquet, and he usually says a few words to her. It’s a good idea that the photographer takes pictures of this moment, as it is very special.
Although it’s tradition for the best man to deliver the bouquet, it can also be a close relative, bridesmaid, father or mother, sister, etc. The important thing is that it’s someone special to you.
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The bouquet during the wedding
After receiving the bouquet, the bride usually keeps it throughout the wedding until she tosses it, or she give it to someone. Normally, the bride carries the bouquet during the ceremony, the couple’s photos, the special moments… but while enjoying the cocktail hour and banquet, she usually leaves the bouquet somewhere so she can enjoy the party. Comfort above all!
At the entrance of the ceremony, the bride usually carries the bouquet in her right hand. According to protocol, the bride is held to the right arm of her companion, traditionally the father. Some protocol guides or depending on the country, it could be the other way. For example, here in Spain, it is tradition for the bride to be held to the left arm of her companion, so she will carry the bouquet in her left hand.
It is recommended to carry the bouquet at waist height, hold it naturally, and keep the arm slightly flexed and relaxed.
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Bouquet toss
A very typical tradition at weddings is the bouquet toss. A very awaited moment for some!
The bride stands backwards to toss the bouquet, and all the single ladies at the wedding who wish to participate stand behind to catch it. Tradition says that the lucky lady who catches the bouquet will be the next to get married.
The bouquet toss is entirely optional, and some brides decide to give it personally to a special guest or some brides prefer to keep it for herself.
Types of bridal bouquets
There are currently countless types of bridal bouquets: classic bouquet, wild, cascading…
You can also choose whether you want it with fresh flowers or preserved flowers. The fresh bouquet will last for the wedding day, while the preserved bouquet is a type of bouquet where the flowers are treated to last for years. A good idea if you would like to keep the bouquet as a keepsake.
Here are some very common types of bouquets:
- Classic bouquet: The most traditional, characterized by its rounded and compact shape. Also, one of the most practical. You can find it in different sizes.
- Wild bouquet: A more informal bouquet with a boho touch. This bouquet usually mixes different types of flowers and greens to make it look like it was freshly picked from the field.
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- Cascading bouquet: A very elegant type of bouquet where the flowers cascade downwards.
- Bunch bouquet: This bouquet usually includes natural wildflowers and aromatic plants such as lavender or rosemary. It can also have dried flowers. A small-sized bouquet, informal, casual, and rustic or countryside style.
In the bridal bouquet, you can also incorporate a personal detail, such as a medal in the ribbon, a special ribbon for you, a family jewel, etc.
Bridesmaids’ bouquets
If you have bridesmaids at your wedding, you will also have to choose their bouquets. These are usually a copy of the bridal bouquet but smaller or simpler.
A trend that is currently very popular among bridesmaids is bracelet bouquets. A flower bracelet, according with the bridal bouquet, tied to the wrist with a ribbon or bow.
If you want to learn more about bridesmaids, don’t miss our blog article about the role of bridesmaids at a wedding.
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Tips for choosing the bridal bouquet
Finally, we tell you our tips for choosing your ideal bridal bouquet:
- Consider the size of the bouquet: Sometimes we want a very big and spectacular bouquet, and depending on our dress or height, it may not be the most ideal. Choose a bouquet that suits you and is practical to carry.
- Take into account that it matches your dress and accessories: Choose a bouquet style that goes according with the style of your dress and accessories. If, for example, your dress is boho chic style, a wild bouquet with natural flowers and soft colors will likely suit you.
- Choose the bouquet in line with the wedding decoration: Following the combination with your dress, the bridal bouquet should also match the floral decoration of the wedding. You can even choose the same type of flowers for the ceremony floral decoration and your bouquet.
- Give meaning to your bouquet: It’s nice to choose the flowers for the bouquet to have a special meaning for you and your partner. You can also incorporate some element, such as a family medal, to give it a personal touch.
- Let yourself be advised by your florist: Wedding florists master bridal bouquets perfectly: types of bouquets, styles, colors… Ask for advice, and she will surely help you choose your perfect bridal bouquet.
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